Monday, March 26, 2012

a short one


hello everyone,

we have to go, but i am writing from the post office. i will be with sister chu for the next few days--she is serving in sangin where i will be staying. she is really really sweet. it will be fun. this week will definietly hold a lot of the unknown--moreso than perhaps ever. but i'm grateful for the opportunity and your mail and support! i love you. i'll be more fun next time, i promise!!

love love love

julia

Sunday, March 25, 2012

transferred and TRAINING!

Hello everybody!!

I am writing from the Nopo bus/subway station near Busan. So, both
Sister Foy and I are being transferred today. We were pretty surprised
to both be going, but they are turning our old area (Bangeojin) into
an Elders' area. We are both going to Daegu, but with a little
different twist this time.

Sister Foy is going to Suseong and I am going to Jungri. It is an area
in my first district. I will actually be living with another
companionship in the Sangin (my first area) house. It is the nicest
house in the mission, which will be a welcome change from Bangeojin,
the not so nicest house in the mission. Ha. Beyond that, it will be a
whole new experience. I will travel to my area every day. It will be
about a 30 minute bus ride from our home. Technically I am white
washing (opening a new area as a senior companion) and training at the
same time, which, while slightly terrifying, is an exciting prospect.
There are already elders in Jungri, so there will be 4 of us serving
in that ward. I am sure they will help us out a lot.

So, I will be in the Busan area, most likely serving with Sister Brady
for a few days before our new missionaries arrive on Wed/Thurs. It
should be exciting. I am excited to spend a few days with Sister
Brady. She will be training as well. Crazy. Anyway, this email is
really boring, but I will write more later.

Happy birthday Megan!!

Love you guys. Write more soon!

Julia

Beyond that, I will be training a new American sister. Oh boy.

Thursday, March 22, 2012

a new investigator!

First and foremost Happy belated St. Patrick's Day and a premature Happy Birthday to Megan!
 
Luckily, St. Patrick's Day was no big deal around here, so I didn't get pinched for not wearing green. I thought pinching all those who were not wearing green might be a good finding tactic, but eventually decided against it.
 
It sounds like the East Coast tour was a real doozy. It was fun to hear about the highlights and imagine how it all went down. Thank you for keeping me up to date on the baby happenings and funny moments. It provokes an actual laugh out loud in the middle of the Dongbu city office...as if enough people weren't already staring at me for wearing a name tag and looking a little physically different than the majority around here...but sincerely, thank you.
 
This week we had some miracles. Some days it seems those things are just waiting right at the edge of our faith, somedays we've hardly done a thing and they may be a result of days and days of faith, but regardless, when we look and work and pray for them, they come.
 
Yesterday, for the second week in a row, Brother G. came to church. I mentioned last week that prior to last week I had never met him. He is a less active member who has a degenerative condition that makes him very tired and it is physically a struggle for him to walk. A few years ago his brother unexpectedly died from this condition and Brother G. has had a harder time coming to church since his brother passed away. The branch presidency even invited him to bless the sacrament. He did very well and seemed like he enjoyed having a little responsibility. When we were going down the stairs between classes he was on his way up. He was practically having to pull his legs up with his arms to get them to go up the stairs. In that moment I realized the great sacrifice he was making to come to church and the true miracle of his devotion and recent faith. I hope he will continue on this path of devotion. It has certainly inspired me.
 
We met with a few people who are very much potential investigators, but are not completely interested in the gospel yet. One is a woman in her 50s who lived in Ohio for 10 years. She speaks English quite well. She attended a Korean Baptist church in the US but since then has not really attended church. She thinks that God is very individual and in your heart. I believe that too, I told her. He is a personal God to me too. I asked her if she feels like her prayers have ever been answered and she, kind of shocked, told us that she's never thought about it before. I promised her that her prayers really could be answered, and jokingly, she said, "Maybe I should come to church." She didn't end up coming this Sunday, but I think if we continue to give her opportunities to feel the spirit she will come. We are going to try to start teaching her more this week.
 
During our weekly planning session this week we decided to make a very specific goal. In all actuality we've yet to have a real investigator yet in our time together. This has definitely tried our faith, sometimes in a detrimental fashion. We decided that this week we will do whatever it takes to get a new investigator and expect, even if it doesn't happen, that our efforts are noticed and will be sustained. Well, yesterday morning at PEC meeting our recently-returned-from-a-​mission new Ward Mission Leader told us that after sacrament meeting his dad wanted to start taking the missionary lessons. Wha?? His mom is a church member, and his dad took the lessons with his mom about 21 years ago, but decided against joining the church. For whatever reason he has become interested again. So, yesterday we taught a new investigator--Brother Kim. He really wants to get baptized as soon as possible, but doesn't know if he can commit to reading and praying about The Book of Mormon. He is blind so his son or his wife will have to read to him and he is very busy with his job. His wife explained that if he can't commit to these smaller things that he will really have a hard time keeping his baptismal covenant. It was a really really imperfect lesson and prompted me to focus more on what I can do to obtain and follow the spirt better in subsequent visits, but I know that Heavenly Father has answered our prayer. I know there are more people willing and ready to hear the gospel here in the Bangeojin area. It was definitely incredible to have such an unexpected opportunity fall into our laps.
 
There were other shining moments this week, but these were the brightest. Time is short, so until next time that's about it! I know that part of faith really is the trying of it (not an original thought...(c) Finding Faith in Christ), but that if we bear that trying with patience there are beautiful gifts just beyond every wall of fear we leave behind. This is the last week of the transfer and who knows what the future holds---I rarely do, but IF it holds training again (which it might), I know Heavenly Father is over all, this is His work and He is perfectly aware of all His children, both the 90 and 9 as well as the 1. A few transfers ago when new sisters came from the MTC, Sister Markland said that at the MTC she learned that Christ takes care of the 90 and 9 before he asks them to go out and look for the one. I know she is right.
 
Mom and Dad-- I love hearing about your island travels and experiences. Dad, I can't wait to hear what happens with your new preacher friend. I pray for you everyday and draw great strength from your examples!
 
Nick and Megan-- have a good birthday week, Megan! Nice to hear from you again, as always. Tell Mac hello. Nick, I hope the post Bar exam relief is still going strong. Have a good week!
 
Charlotte and Matt-- sounds as though the adventures spared no one this last time around. Glad to hear it. These will definitely be classic anecdotes in the Adsero collection!
 
Ladi and Bob-- glad you made it home safe, Ladi. The baby briggade sounds like a lot of fun, but exhausting. I don't know whether you should count me in or out next time....ha. Glad you had fun! Bob, hope Seattle was fun!
 
Grams and Gramps-- how you toughed out all the lively company, I'm not sure, but you're alwaysgood sports to host us all, in spite of the decibel level that comes with us. Love you!
 
Last but not least, shout out to Kimberlee Williams and company for the lovely package, notes, candy (almost gone) and music. It has been so nice to hear from you, even if the letters span a few months! I loovvvvvveed it. (except for the incriminating pictures).  Gretchen, especially, thank you for the new music. I was in much need!
 
LOVE
julia

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Big Macs and rainy days


Hello from rainy Bangeojin!

It has been raining here all week, but we're hopeful we'll see a sunny day sometime this week. Thanks for your letters this week. Dad, that's a really cool missionary experience you were able to have. I look forward to hearing what comes of it. I have learned a lot on my mission, but like you, one of the main things I have learned is that you really never know. Nick, I hope the exam went well and that you and Megan both are doing well!

So proselyting at bus stops in the rain was a little rough this week, but the rain certainly causes people to congregate under any structure. If anything a few more people at least "heard" our message because of proximity alone. Maybe Heavenly Father is trying to tell us it's time to knock doors. It's hard for me to feel that is the best way since I have only ever gotten in one time and maybe one person out of 30 even bother to answer the door. Most people have a symbol on their apartment door denoting what religion they belong to. There is quite the religious fervor here, but many people attend church for social purposes. We'll see. Inspiration sometimes comes from sheer force. If this rain keeps up it may be time to start knocking doors again. I learned in my last area that there is no right or wrong way to do find people. Of course there are those methods that seem to be more practical and effective, but really, the only way is to follow your feelings. One bad thing about the rain--people get good at boxing us out with their umbrellas. Ha.

Anyway, we lost our phone the other day on the bus. We didn't realize it was gone for a couple hours, but we called it from a payphone and a man answered who wanted to return it to us, but couldn't until the following day. We were worried about the battery and wanted to make sure we were communicating correctly etc. etc. We called our district leader (who completely fell through) and hoped for the best the next day. The next day it looked dismal after several unanswered phone calls to our phone, but it turns out he called every church member in our phone, or so it seemed. Somehow, someway one of our church members brought the phone back to our apartment unscathed before we left for the day. It was certainly a blessing. Even though the phone could certainly be replaced quite easily we were grateful Heavenly Father answered our prayers.

So I am sick for only the second time on my mission--the first being at the MTC. I have a cold and a few days ago was pretty miserable. In search of some consolation we went to....McDonald's for dinner. I will forever recall Dad's statement when we were all here in Korea: "Sometimes I just want a hamburger. I don't exactly crave this stuff." As hard as it may be to believe, I have begun to crave certain Korean food, but being sick I needed some home cooking. What better place to find that than McDonald's? Anyway, when we got off the bus, another foreigner began talking to us. It turns out he's from Uzbekistan. His name is Ota. He has lived in Korea for 4 and 1/2 years and works for Hyundai. He is learning Korean and English. He wanted to eat with us and ended up buying us Big Macs. Yes. Big Macs all around. We talked to him a bit about the church. He's never had religion before. He didn't seem completely interested in the gospel, but we'll probably meet with him later this week. It's just interesting to see how our paths are led. Who knows why we were supposed to meet him, exactly, or what will come of our interaction, but we had thought several times about getting off the bus earlier and eating somewhere else, but for some reason we didn't. Maybe Ota is the reason?

On the 15th of this month my mission will be halfway over. Crazy! It makes me wonder what exactly has happened since I've been here and how I want things to be different the day I go home. I'm grateful for the opportunity to reflect on these kinds of things and the motivation it provides to stay present in every moment possible, because they go fast. I feel I have learned a lot, it's just applying it that I haven't quite learned yet. That is a huge part of learning, so I hope I can really learn to apply the things I've learned these next 9 months.

I hope I have more to tell you this next week! Thanks for your love and notes! Happy birthday month, Megan!

Love,
Julia