Monday, July 16, 2012

the grandma club and summer heat sweetness

Hello Hello!
 
My introductory creativity is running low these days. Do forgive. Thanks for the letters all around. It was great to hear from all of you!
 
We had a fun week here in Joongri. We tried to track down a bunch of the people we had contacted in our former weeks together. Unfortunately we weren't able to meet with many of them, but we did get to see a few. There are a lot of older ladies who like to talk to us and let us sit down by them. They are happy to let us talk about our message, but an overriding thought is that all religion is the same. We talk to people like that everyday. They aren't too eager to change, but I love them and their kindness. We usually can't get away without them shoving some of their treats or the like down our throats. They are sweet. I have gotten better at sharing my food since I came here, that's for sure.
 
Some of our appointments fell through, so that meant a lot of contacting and work on the street. We also met with a group from 신천지 (Shin Cheon Jee). We weren't completely aware of what this appointment would entail, but it turned out to be sort of a bible bash. I still can't communicate clearly or fast enough to really let 'em have it (luckily...I think that's why Heavenly Father sent me where I would have to really think about how and what i need to say and couldn't rush to overbearing statements). Anyway, we testified of the BOM, told them about how our church came to be, left them with copies and an invitation to read. It wasn't easy, but I was grateful we stuck to the game plan of testify and leaving something behind. It took me an hour or so to get my head back in the spiritual game after the appointment. Still a lot of pride to lose, as you can see. Ha. The women were respectful, but wouldn't tell us their real names and were suspicious when we wrote down the names they gave us so we could remember them. It was interesting, but we won't be meeting again.
 
On Monday night after P-Day we were taking the subway on the way to try and meet a new contact. We were talking to people on the silent subway. It is so nice to have a companion with me backing me up. It is nice that when we have both made the decision to talk that the resiliency and determination of one another spurs us on. Anyway, after about 4 people not really listening, we tried a lady on the other row. She was really nice to us and told us that she was actually baptized in middle school into our church! She is probably in her 50s now, but we gave her a Book of Mormon, got her phone number and are now trying to meet with her. I know that God is putting the prepared people in our path, even if it's the second, third, or fourth time they've heard the message. It was really cool to meet her.
 
Also, Sister McComber and Sister Baker (the sisters I also live with) were in our area trying to find someone they've been working with. They walked by this clothing store and a lady came running out and tracked them down. She told them she's met with missionaries before and that she wanted to meet again. Her English name is Kristina. They went in and met with her, gave her a Book of Mormon and said they would bring us next time. We went with them this week and Kristina apologized that she'd only made it to 2 Nephi in the four days she's had the Book of Mormon. We tried to mask our astonishment, but when she went back to get us some pumpkin tea, all four of us were looking at each other with huge eyes. Kristina came back and talked to us about a few things. She is a really really strong Catholic, but says that when she's reading the Book of Mormon she feels like it's the word of God. We will be going back early this week to meet with her again and start really teaching her the lessons. It's a really big blessing to have someone devour the Book of Mormon like that. It's exciting.
 
All three of our other would be progressing investigators are having a hard time getting into the Book of Mormon. We spent this week reading with them and encouraging them to do so on their own. One is the lady we found on the street that I talked about last week, Sister Nam. She had refused a hard copy of the Book of Mormon last week, claiming that it was too heavy and big, in spite of the fact she had 9 book shelves of who knows what in the very room we met in alone. We were worried she would fall upon unfavorable material on the internet. Not reading the Book of Mormon has never been quite as big of a blessing. Because she hadn't read we were able to read together, testify, and get her excited about getting her own answer about the book. We left the book behind and felt like it had been a good appointment. It is officially rainy season, and like the big Utah dry weather brats that we are, we had forgotten our umbrellas. By this time it was pouring pretty well. We braced ourselves and prepared to run to the next mart to buy an umbrella. We ran and got inside, but when we found out that the umbrellas were nearly 10,000 won we declined and decided we could make it to the subway. As we were leaving the mart, Sister Nam's husband had apparently seen us and driven over to give us an umbrella. We were humbled and grateful for his kindness. Elder Ringwood told us that when we see someone doing good in the lives of others we need to talk to that person. Sister Nam's husband is already love in action. We are hoping we'll be able to teach this good family. They are sweet.
 
Also, on funnier notes, we were escorted out of this neighborhood by a Catholic man in an electric wheelchair. When he found out we were Mormon he spent a block and a half following us and singing the equivalent of what must be "Oh Babylon, Oh Babylon we bid thee farewell..." or something like it. He didn't have a bad singing voice, honestly, but we just smiled on our way and wondered how far he would follow us. Another lady stopped him eventually. It was funny.
 
On Sunday night we paid a visit to the park that we had visited last Sunday. There are about 5-8 grandmas that spend their time under this pavillion every single day. We call them the grandma club. They are very kind to us. We have been teaching them a principle at a time. Last week was "the gospel blesses families." That was a real hit, let me tell you. All of them live alone, and some have never been married. They don't offer a lot of active participation, but we heard it on that one. This week was prophets. None of them are Christian, so it was a new concept. Once we talk religion, they don't listen much, but just enough that we think it's definitely worth the time to stop. I have never heard one of the ladies utter a word, but every time I sit down she stops fanning herself and always fans me--I don't know whether it's an act of kindness or a subtle hint regarding my hygiene habits, but I'll assume the former and be grateful. They really are the best. Most people on busses, on the streets and hanging around town in Korea are grandmas. They are so kind to us. I can't understand much of what they say, but their sentiment is always apparent.
 
We also met with Sister P this week. She is going to try quitting drinking and smoking at the beginning of August. We talked about the rest of the Plan of Salvation with her and promised her the power of the atonement could help her in her endeavor. She said she is going to try and lay low so she won't be tempted by her friends, but said that we were probably the only people she could really see at that time. Of course we were happy about that. I think for the first time we were able to help her see the actuality and possibility of Jesus Christ's help. It was probably our best meeting with her since the first.
 
Things are good. We're learning and happy along the way. Sister Cutler is helping me grow and so good at sticking with her goals. I'm grateful for this opportunity and know my path is led and God loves all his children.
 
Be good to yourselves! Love you.
 
Dad-- thanks for the mail. thanks for keeping me on my toes. at a recent district meeting Sister Gilbert asked that I tell everyone your quote about "the best missionary work begins at the end of your comfort zone." So, for better or worse (better :)) your influence is felt all the way over in Korea Busan mission too. Glad to hear you're still pumping people up. Thanks for your faith and steadiness!
 
Mom-- glad your back is feeling better. Sounds like there's not a lot of time to be in pain over there. You're a champion, so I'm sure you weathered it well. Love you. Thanks for your letters. They are always entertaining and inspiring.
 
Nick-- hope things are going well! love you. let me know about the summer happenings in UT.
 
Meg-- you too. You gotta let me in on all the fun RP gossip and summer time parties. Love you!!
 
Char-- thanks for all the pics and stories. They were, as always, hilarious. I almost forgot you were pregnant until I saw those pictures. Can't believe it. Hope you're feeling well!
 
Matt-- 3 weeks on site?? Stay healthy. I hope you get to come home soon. Thanks for working so hard. You look great in the pics. When I showed someone my family pictures the other day they pointed to you and said "movie star." So, if your self confidence was ever in question, here's a pump up for you.
 
Ladi-- love you! Keep having fun in PA. It sounds like a blast to have a summer away, and it sounds like, as usual, you're making the best of it. Tell Minnie hello, and Robert too. Love you.
 
Bob-- hope the job is still going well. Thanks for the Hot Rod Hundley quote. Those always seem to quell any semblance of homesickness.
 
Love you guys. Till next week,
 
Julia
 

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